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Why “Doing It Right” Might Be What’s Holding You Back

And What to Do Instead

We’re taught that if we just follow the rules, work hard, and seek out the ancient keys of wisdom, we’ll finally “arrive.” We’ll unlock that next-level life—the one we’ve been dreaming of. A life we don’t want to escape from.

So we chase strategy.

We chase formulas.

We look for the next book, the next podcast, the next “proven” method.

We think: If I can just get it right…

And doesn’t that feel like the responsible thing to do?

Figure out how to play the game of life the right way.

Check the boxes.

Avoid mistakes.

Do what you should.

But let’s pause there.

Because what if “doing it right” is actually rooted in something far more toxic?

Perfectionism.

That gripping fear that if we don’t do it perfectly, we won’t be worthy.

That if we aren’t constantly earning, proving, striving… we won’t deserve the good things we desire now.

It’s sneaky.

It’s socially acceptable.

And it’s keeping so many of us stuck.

Here’s the truth no one teaches you:

The strategy is not the solution.

You are.

What if you gave yourself permission to do it your way?

To lean into the intelligence of your own body?

To trust the quiet pull of your intuition?

You don’t have to “earn” alignment. You just have to allow it.

You are not separate from the power you’re trying to access.

You are one with the Creator of the universe.

God eternal lives within you.

When you trust that truth, you stop chasing, striving, and proving.

You start receiving.

You start living the life that was meant for you all along.

Ready to reclaim that version of you?

The one who’s done playing by someone else’s rules?

The one who feels safe to follow her inner knowing?

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This is your invitation to stop striving and start aligning.