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Stop Trying to Fix Yourself — That’s Not Healing


Let me save you YEARS of frustration on your healing journey:

Healing isn’t about fixing yourself.

It’s not about becoming someone better. It’s not about trying to finally like who you are.

It’s about one thing:

Remembering who the hell you were before the world messed with you.

Before the conditioning, the projections, the wounds that weren’t even yours. You are not broken. You are not a project to be managed.

You’re just carrying the weight of someone else’s damage — and calling it your identity.

And here’s the kicker:

Every time you try to “fix” yourself, you’re just reinforcing the belief that you’re inherently wrong. That you’re not worthy until you’re “better.”

That’s a lie.

The real flex?

Unlearning that BS. Releasing the stories that were never yours to carry. And embracing who you already ARE — raw, natural, and fully human.

But if that feels impossible, here’s some truth you need to hear:

You’re probably holding onto trauma that your mind alone can’t fix.

Because the body keeps the score. Your nervous system is still playing defense long after the threat is gone. No amount of mindset hacks or affirmations will get you there.

That’s why somatic trauma work is the game changer.

It gets under the surface, rewires your relationship with your body, and finally lets you feel safe enough to BE yourself — unapologetically.

So if you’re tired of the exhausting self-improvement hamster wheel…

It’s time to stop.

It’s time to come home to yourself — not the version you think you should be, but the version you’ve been all along.

And if you don’t know where to start?

That’s what I’m here for.

let’s start peeling back those layers.

You’re not broken. You’re just waiting to remember who you are.