I used to believe my job as a coach was to help clients push through resistance.
Reframe harder.
Motivate more.
Take action anyway.
Until I realized something uncomfortable: resistance isn’t the problem.
It’s unhealed trauma.
Unconscious parts. Subconscious programs. Wounds stored in the body not the mind. And no amount of mindset work can access what was never cognitive to begin with.
When clients didn’t shift, it wasn’t because they weren’t integrating. It was because their nervous systems were protecting them.
Pushing only caused shutdown, looping, dissociation, and self-sabotage.
Trauma Healing Helps But It’s Incomplete
Modalities like EMDR, somatic work, and parts work are powerful and necessary. But on their own, they still miss two critical pieces.
1. Cognitive control.
The body shows us where to heal, but it cannot run the process alone. Without the mind engaged, clients stay stuck in endless processing instead of integration.
2. Internal communion with our Creator.
Trauma distorts the inner voice. It replaces guidance with fear and survival strategies. When trauma clears, guidance returns and action becomes clean, aligned, and effective.
This is where real success comes from.
Not force. Not hustle. Guidance.
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This isn’t motivation.
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